Our New Normal: A Post-Thanos Snap World

By Jason Touray

Originally posted on LinkedIn: share your thoughts with JT

So, here we are, living in the New Normal. I’ve been back in London for a few days now after my girlfriend and I cut short our holiday in Colombia amidst the escalating response to the COVID-19 pandemic.

We had been looking forward to the trip for months and flew to Bogotá when London was functioning as normal and the only meaningful directive from the government at that time virtually amounted to “everyone wash your hands and when you’re in London Underground stations, try your best not to lick the escalator handrails”.

Then, there was unclear messaging and panic back in the UK, all of which initially passed me and my girlfriend by because we were busy playing (or in my case, winning at) Tejo with our friends in Bogotá. We soon became aware that the response to the situation was getting much more serious and flew back to London to avoid being stuck in Colombia in the event that the country completely closed its borders. The public spaces in the London we came back to were emptying, supermarket shelves were bare and more recently, the whole country has gone into official lockdown.

Using the boiling frog analogy, I was basically a frog that dipped out of the pot while the water was still tepid, then flew to Colombia for super-fun times before being unceremoniously tossed back into the pot just as it began to approach boiling point.

This has been jarring but I think it’s actually been super helpful for me. I’ve been more vigilant in adapting to this New Normal than I might have been had I remained in the proverbial pot of water throughout.

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It’s been an abrupt and seismic change, comparable to a snap of the fingers from an Infinity Gauntlet-wielding Thanos. In one moment I was singing Holiday by Madonna. In the next, my trip to Colombia and the current and upcoming work projects I had been so focused on paled into insignificance (for now) and all that really mattered was us. All of us.

I won’t lie, I think this New Normal will result in a lot of suffering, that things will get worse before they get better, that our current phase will endure for a significant period of time and will have long-lasting consequences on society at large.

Having said that, we need each other now. We need to look out for ourselves and one another. As with the post-snap world portrayed in the aftermath of the movie Avengers: Infinity War, we will all also need to take stock of our New Normal, find some meaning in all of this and collectively seek to find a way to turn lemons into lemonade. Collectively, we will all need you (yes, YOU) to do this. So be well, be safe and be informed, please.

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Public Service Announcement – I will henceforth be referring to the new phase we all live in due to the COVID-19 pandemic as The Snap. If you didn’t watch the Avengers movies or generally commit to watching the Marvel Cinematic Universe movies, that is your own personal problem. You have time now. Disney+ exists so you can go ahead and remedy your reckless ways.